The Party That Gets Sh*t Done: Why Nesting Parties Are the New Baby Shower

June 04, 20253 min read

If you’ve ever sat through a baby shower wondering why we’re still playing “Guess the Poop” with melted chocolate bars in diapers… same.

Don’t get us wrong—traditional baby showers can be sweet. But if you’re an expectant parent staring down a mountain of baby gear, an unfinished nursery, and zero frozen meals in the fridge, you might be craving something a little more practical. Enter: the nesting party.

And let us just say—this is the party that gets sh*t done.

What is a Nesting Party?

A nesting party is a hands-on, heart-filled alternative to a baby shower. Think: your best friends gathered around your kitchen island, not just sipping mocktails but actually helping you get ready for your baby.

Instead of games, think gear setup.
Instead of gift wrap, think drawer organizers.
Instead of watching you open onesies, your crew helps you fold, prep, and label them.

It’s like a productivity session, a cozy get-together, and a full-blown act of love—rolled into one supportive event.

Why Nesting Parties Are Gaining Popularity

More and more parents-to-be are looking for ways to reduce overwhelm during the third trimester. And a nesting party is the ultimate “it takes a village” moment. Here’s why it’s the next big thing:

  • It checks off real tasks you were probably going to cry about doing solo at 38 weeks pregnant.

  • It gives your friends a meaningful way to help—because let’s face it, not everyone knows what to bring or how to pitch in.

  • It’s intimate, cozy, and low-pressure. No fancy outfits required.

  • It leaves you with real peace of mind. Like fully-stocked diaper caddies and a birth bag that’s ready to go.

This is the kind of gathering where you feel loved and supported—and also leave with a prepped sleep station, 10 freezer meals, and a clean bottle sterilizer. Talk about nesting energy.

What Happens at a Nesting Party?

That’s the beauty of it: you get to decide. But most nesting parties include:

  • Nursery setup: Building furniture, hanging shelves, organizing drawers.

  • Baby gear organization: Sorting clothes, prepping diaper bags, stocking the postpartum bathroom basket (you know the one).

  • Meal prep: Think hearty soups, casseroles, muffins, and lactation snacks for the freezer.

  • Stations for everything: Diaper caddy? Check. Breastfeeding cart? Check. Sleep station with blackout curtains? You bet.

Instead of a party where the guest of honor sits and opens presents, this is a party where everyone pitches in—and the real gift is knowing you’re ready.

Ready to Throw One?

Here’s the best part: you don’t have to figure it all out yourself. We created the ultimate Nesting Party Guide & Checklist to walk you through every step.

✔️ What is a nesting party and how to host one
✔️ What to tell your guests (and what they can bring)
✔️ Tips for coordination + how to make it fun
✔️ Pre-party prep guide so you’re not scrambling
✔️ Checklists for each space: diaper caddy, nursery station, postpartum care, breastfeeding, bottle prep, birth bag, and more
✔️ Easy meal prep ideas and recipes
✔️ Printable instructions for each station

If you’re ready to feel supported, prepared, and a little bit pampered—grab the guide that turns chaos into calm. It’s designed by a professional baby planner to help you get everything done before baby arrives (without the stress).

👉 Get the Nesting Party Guide & Checklist and start planning the party you’ll actually remember.

I’m a professional maternity concierge, newborn care specialist, and baby gear expert. As a mother of two daughters and an aunt to fourteen nieces and nephews, I understand the complexities (and joys!) of preparing for a new baby. I’m dedicated to helping modern, busy parents prepare their lives for the changes that come with a baby.

Katie Montell

I’m a professional maternity concierge, newborn care specialist, and baby gear expert. As a mother of two daughters and an aunt to fourteen nieces and nephews, I understand the complexities (and joys!) of preparing for a new baby. I’m dedicated to helping modern, busy parents prepare their lives for the changes that come with a baby.

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